Itinerary
Our wedding weekend is planted in poetry. When I turned 24, Abhinav wrote me “The Sapling” - a poem about love, growth, and learning to bend with the wind but never break. That poem became the seed of our story. Each of the wedding events we’ve planned stems from that first metaphor - tiny moments growing into something beautiful and wild. We’re so grateful you’re here to watch it all bloom.
Welcome to our forest of love.
There once was a young sapling
Planted in rich soil, firm in its root.
Turned its bright young leaves to the sun
It stood small, proud, resolute.
But this was no ordinary sapling
Life decided its journey wouldn’t be a breeze -
It was going to test the seed, push it to its limit
See if it can make it and join the rest of the trees.
So just as the small sapling started to grow,
The next big step after the initial sprout,
Life decided to deal its first test
And ripped one of its roots out
But the sapling decided to still stand.
It grew shakily, but never wavered
Staying true to the roots it still had.
It grew into a beautiful, young tree,
With its roots thickening ironclad.
But then life decided to give its second test,
And sent over a deadly, poisonous spore.
It sapped the life from the young tree
Nearly shriveling it to the floor.
But the sapling decided to still stand.
The sapling found new soil and nutrients
Fighting its way from its own doom,
And despite life’s first two tests,
It found its way to its very first bloom.
The sapling blossomed with beautiful purple flowers,
A coveted tree in a land so vast,
But the young tree had one more obstacle to face
Because life saved its hardest test for last.
For the sapling now had to face the challenge of tree-hood
And had to learn to grow on its own
In an isolated grove by itself,
How could the young sapling not feel alone?
The sapling faced adversity like never before -
Battered by the wind, burned by the sun,
Drowned by the rain and drained of its energy,
It seemed like life had finally won.
Until one day the young sapling was visited by a bee
Who landed on its very last flower.
It took some pollen and then buzzed away
Seemingly robbing the tree of its power.
But then the tree stopped to think
After everything, how could it still give?
And then it dawned on the young sapling -
Its strength was found in its will to live.
So the sapling decided to still stand.
The young sapling grew into a majestic tree
With flowers and fruits bundled aplenty.
The strength and power it found at its lowest point
Had always been there, hindsight 20/20.
For whatever life threw at it, the sapling wouldn’t give up
Shards of glass would crumble to sand
Its beauty and strength became tales of legend
And for the rest of time, the sapling would stand.
Events
Welcome Night
Manarai Beach House
27 March 2026, 5 PM - 9 PM
Adomania*
n. the sense that the future is arriving ahead of schedule, that all those years with fantastical names like ‘2026’ are bursting from their hypothetical cages into the arena of the present, furiously bucking the grip of your expectations while you lean and slip in your saddle, one hand reaching for reins, the other waving up high like a schoolkid who finally knows the answer to the question.
Italian a domani, until tomorrow + mania. Pronounced “ad-uh-mey-nee-uh.”
dinner, drinks, Balinese welcome.
Attire: Western, flowy linens and cottons
Vibes: sunset on the beach
Colors: whites, creams
Haldi
Beach Garden, Sofitel Nusa Dua
28 March 2026, 11 AM - 3 PM
Watashiato*
n. curiosity about the impact you’ve had on the lives of the people you know, wondering which of your harmless actions or long-forgotten words might have altered the plot of their stories in ways you’ll never get to see.
Japanese 私 (watashi), I + 足跡 (ashiato), footprint. Pronounced “wah-tah-shee-ah-toh.”
games, lunch, crafts, Haldi.
Attire: Indian
Vibes: light and comfortable, rustic, earthy, rooted
Colors: shades of yellow
Sangeet
Retreat Garden, Sofitel Nusa Dua
28 March 2026, 7 PM - 1 AM
Scabulous*
adj. proud of a certain scar on your body, which is like an autograph signed to you by a world grateful for your continued willingness to play with her.
From scab + fabulous.
dinner, mushrooms, neon, and non-stop dancing.
Attire: Indo-Western
Vibes: psychedelic, trippy
Colors: bright colors, geometric patterns, neon
Wedding
Retreat Garden, Sofitel Nusa Dua
29 March 2026, 3 PM - 6 PM
Aftersome*
adj. astonished to think back on the bizarre sequence of accidents that brought you to where you are today—as if you’d spent years bouncing down a Plinko pegboard, passing through a million harmless decision points, any one of which might’ve changed everything—which makes your long and winding path feel fated from the start, yet so unlikely as to be virtually impossible.
Swedish eftersom, because.
light bites, purple blossoms, and new beginnings.
Attire: South Indian Traditional / Indian Traditional
Vibes: temple, Vedic, reverent
Colors: light colors, pastels
Please avoid all shades of purple as that is reserved for the bridal party.
*Baarat starts in front of the lobby at 3 PM
Reception
Kecak Ballroom, Sofitel Nusa Dua
29 March 2026, 8 PM - 2 AM
Slinkical
adj. the sense that time doesn’t flow forward in a straight line, nor spin endlessly in a loop, but instead coils forward in spirals—like a slinky inching its way down unseen steps. Each moment echoing a memory you can’t quite place, like déjà vu set to a different key. Faces change, scenery shifts, but there’s a strange familiarity, as if you're revisiting the same story in a new draft—progressing, yet circling, always arriving somewhere you've never been, and yet somehow never left.
From Slinky, a helical spring toy.
dinner, speeches, connection, and reflection.
Attire: Indian or Western Formal
Vibes: shining, sparkling, glam, glowing forest of love
Colors: Choose your favorite color (the bolder the better) and bling it up.
* These words are from The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows, a book written by John Koenig.
This book is a testament to the power of naming the elusive contours of human experience — to putting words to emotions we feel but struggle to describe. Our vocabulary falls short when it comes to capturing these subtleties, and that's a symptom of a language that evolves to reflect the tangible and communal, not the internal and vulnerable. All the words in this dictionary are new — some rescued, some invented, many forged from fragments of a hundred different languages — to help us navigate our rich spectrum of human feeling. We’re not as solitary in our experiences as we think, and by naming them, we illuminate what it means to be human.
Aditi brought this book up on our first date and it is this topic that really opened us into each other’s hearts. We hope that in each event you feel what we feel - that all the aches, demons, vibes, joys, and urges that are humming in the background of daily life is part of an invisible thread that connects us all.